Why Do Expat Men Cheat On Their Women?
“When expatriates men cheat, it basically means that they are looking for something their girlfriend or wife is not providing. Often times, it comes down to sex.” Well, partially true but there must be more to it than that. “….cheating is disrespectful towards the person you’ve cheated on, but at the very least, it has two beneficial aspects to it.
First, that you’ll realize your mistake and appreciate your lover a lot more after the horrible deed. The second is that cheating can help you realize your misery within your current relationship, and will likely give you that necessary shove to move on and stop wasting both your lover’s and your own time.”
So why do some expat men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Expatriates will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always.
Women do have great understanding about expats. But there is a part of men that they do not completely understand. Why in the world would he cheat on me, this seems to be a question that crosses the minds of women who are cheated on.
Possibly the area of the problem could be commitment. Even being married, some men will not fully commit themselves to the spouse. Not only in outward areas of his life but mostly inside. So not being truthful in a sense it will cause men to stray to look for a more comfortable relationship.
Being unsatisfied and feeling less stimulated by the current relationship is sometimes a problem. A crisis of bringing back the old days could pin point this problem. Wanting to feel younger and forget the daily grind brings upon him pressure and causes men to cheat.
Some men cheat because they are too afraid to give up their current relationship because of financial reasons. They would rather cheat and have the new relationship also, rather than loose out on their financial status in life. Knowing that divorce could lead to dividing everything and stripping the budget, they would rather take the chance cheating.
Some also like the excitement of having a secret affair, which is way out of line. These kind of games can be costly to the cheating spouse,but the rush that they get from this is worth the risk for some. They continue to cheat on their wife or expatriate girlfriend, because they are sure they can get away with it.
There are other reasons why men cheat is because they do not take their marriage or relationship serious. This could be that they feel like their spouse or girlfriend, is not smart enough to figure them out.
Most men cheat because of a bored relationship,and most men are single minded and do not realize the consequences of their actions.