Myth: Women fall into one of 2 categories: F**k-able or Date-able The Female Perspective Date-able girls are the quintessential ‘good Read More
So who’s the “best” girlfriend a guy could have? Any of you who are single [and some of you who Read More
When I say “sin” I don’t mean, killing, cheating, or dealing drugs, I’m talking about taking everyday situations and making Read More
Last Saturday I went to a strip club for dinner. Out of the box thinking. For many this may seem Read More
I’m splayed across two seats on the subway ignoring her looks. She is giving me that lucrative window of initial Read More
Nutrition is important. Unless you’re rich you’re not going to be able to eat all of your meals at restaurants, Read More
We came across this survey of men at Askmen.com, and found a few disturbing figures, that we felt the need Read More
Our friends over at Bloglovin have a nice set of measurable parameters that can help you determine your sexual market place out in the field. Read More
It seems absurd i know, but it’s true. Girls, especially good looking ones, get besieged by men all the time for dates, and Read More
I’ve stopped engaging arguments about whether “dating game” works or not, or whether it’s “fake” or whatever, for one simple Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
“She looks just like her father.” I flushed every time I heard these words, hoping the discomfort I felt was Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
