I don’t mean turning 40. I mean dating someone who’s 40, or almost 40. Let’s pretend for a moment that Read More
A disastrously disease that feminism unleashed upon society was their complete disregard for young boys. From the moment feminism rained Read More
This is one of the more illuminating character traits of girls to beta men, who would never try to broach the Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
It seems absurd i know, but it’s true. Girls, especially good looking ones, get besieged by men all the time for dates, and Read More
I’ve stopped engaging arguments about whether “dating game” works or not, or whether it’s “fake” or whatever, for one simple Read More
When a guy tells me he’s having trouble with his dating game, I want to know one thing. How many Read More
I promised Alex Wise from Loveawake I would post my thoughts on his brilliant pair of posts on the spoils Read More
How can a woman want rich guys and outlaw bikers? Isn’t this a contradiction? The Rich Man/Biker ‘Paradox’ One problem Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
“She looks just like her father.” I flushed every time I heard these words, hoping the discomfort I felt was Read More
I know, the first thing you’re thinking is my title of this blog is bullshit. Well first of all, calm Read More
So I was thinking, remember when I said I was giving up on online dating in my last blog? No? Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
