What do you believe is the foundation to a good, healthy relationship? I’m going to assume that you just want Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Incredible! You’ve met someone you actually want to go out with again… and again. Don’t panic. Just because you messed Read More
If you’re known as a heart breaker, is it because you’re afraid to have your heart broken? After breaking up Read More
I’ve been hearing lots of conflicting thoughts on how to manage an online dating profile inbox. Here are the top Read More
It seems to me that many women judge men for a sports addiction and men just don’t understand why anything Read More
How often to do you turn down a potential relationship because the person in question isn’t your “type”? I recently Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
Much like Asher Roth, I loved college. It was a time of much growth, discovery, and beaucoup sarcasm plus I went to Read More
Every morning when I wake up, I brush my teeth, take a shower, get out and proceed to applying lotion Read More
I know a lot of people swear they don’t use the bathroom at work. Quite frankly I think they’re full Read More
It’s pretty ’til I had to shovel it. Unless you get all of your news from TMZ or BET, you’ve Read More
Life’s a b*tch and then you die. While meandering through the wonderful world of Twitter the other day, I happened Read More
I met with recording artist drake for brunch yesterday to discuss the budding megastar’s new album and upcoming tour. over Read More
If gangstas don’t dance – they boogie – then it’s time for the percolator. And if that made any sense Read More
10 Women Every (Straight) Black Woman Seems To Go Gay Gor “Omg. i’m not gay, but i’d soooo do bad Read More
Ok. I lied. Yesterday, I devoted this space to 1000 or so angst-ridden words about why I was tired of Read More
Today’s economy has left a lot of people wanting. Men and women are losing jobs at an alarming rate, and Read More
