Online Game: Talking To Women
Awhile back, I believe that I said I would post one of my message exchanges with one of the women I met online. I am no longer talking to this girl, so I’d say that it’s pretty safe to post this now. I was going to put up my commentary, but let‘s see if you guys can figure out the game I‘m spitting. On a side note, once she responded to me, I’d maker her wait a day before I replied back.
Also, she contacted me first. I said that I only contact women that view me, but now I have my profile so perfected that I no longer even need to do that anymore; women contact me on a regular basis, and I respond to the ones that I like. This girl? An exotic mixed ethnicity girl with blue eyes; very cute and in shape, so I had to get back at her. I’m sure she gets hundreds of messages. And by the way, if you see an out of place comment, it‘s because it was a comment about something in her profile:
Her: hi there
Me: Skipping school? Shame on you. I noticed that you’re from (place removed), so I’m going to ask you now, would coming to Columbus be a problem in the future?
Her: yeah. so what u want on this site?
Me: I’d rather just talk, go out and have a little fun, and go from there. Depending on the girl, she might just be a good friend, or a girl that I want to date. It just depends on who she is and on what type of connection/vibe I get from her. Whatever the case, I definitely don’t want someone that’s going to be needy.
What exactly are you looking for anyway? You say that you’re looking for dating, but I also noticed that you’ll only be in Ohio (x amount of time). So I’m going to guess that you aren’t looking for anything too serious right away?
Her: i really want a boyfriend, but i like friends too. Just have no luck so far. I’d like to get to know you
Me: Awwww, how cute. You sound so shy. What do you want to know? If you haven’t figured it out already, I don’t take myself too seriously, and am mostly chill. Why is it that you want a boyfriend anyway? Tired of being alone? I’m going to guess that you find it difficult to find anyone that you can relate to?
I should probably tell you why it is that I’m in no rush to find a girlfriend. If it happens, then great, but I’m not going to try to force it. I’d rather take my time and make sure the person is right for me, instead of rushing into a relationship with someone that I’m not quite so sure about. Ever date a guy just to date him when he really isn’t what you want? It happens to everyone.
What do I want in a girl? Someone that’s just as chill as I am, and doesn’t take everything so seriously. I need to be able to take her out and not have to worry about any drama. Not into those types of girls. And she also has to have a good heart. I’m not saying that she has to be perfect, because no one is, but she should at least have good intentions. Does this sound like you?
Her: mostly, I’m single because no one understands me, so I really want someone special in my life. If It ends up that we don’t click, I won’t push it. I want a guy I can be with and Like being with. Not just a guy to date me. I’m not pathedic.
I like to have fun with life and joke around. I hate drama. I do know when to be serious. I have had too many problems with guys who are complete jerks or just want me for sex.
I want a guy who is kind, i relate to, is funny and likes to be carefree, i can take home to my family, and respects me.
I think I fit the discription of a girl you want.
Me: I don’t know if I’m special, but I’m definitely different; not your typical guy. You probably already figured that when you read my profile. Anyhow, you’ll get exactly what you’re looking for; you just have to want it. When I was getting involved with women that weren’t for me, it was because I didn’t have higher expectations of them. In other words, if men are treating you like crap and just using you for sex, it’s because you aren’t holding them to a higher standard.
If I could take a wild guess, I’d say that you’re a very caring person, and guys take advantage of your niceness. Either way, a man should always treat his girlfriend with nothing but respect. If he really cares about her, then he needs to show it. But at the same time, she shouldn’t take his kindness for granted.
Where do you go to college at anyway? One more question: I noticed that you live about an hour away, so how do you feel about dating someone that you might not be able to see every weekend? Do you think you can handle that?
Her: My problem is just that…i’m too nice. Guys i get with are cute and great in my eyes, then they change their personality all at once. I still treat them well, and they take advantage of me. It sucks.
I don’t mind an hour. that’s pretty close compared to most these other losers on (website removed). I hope to hear from you soon.
I’m (name removed), what’s your name?
Me: My name is Todd with two d’s…just kidding. My name is Omari. Other losers? So harsh. But it does take forever to find anyone decent on this website. They all come at you with the same lines and say the same things that you’ve already heard a million times before. I usually just ignore most messages. They don’t realize that if they were just a little different, they might actually get noticed. I would guess that most of these girls receive hundreds of messages.
That’s why I set my profile up the way it is. If she’s too serious, then she obviously won’t see the intended sarcasm in it and will move along. Works out for both of us. The more details you provide, and the more specific you are about what it is that you want, the more likely you are to find it and won’t have to deal with so many losers messaging you. But then again, most guys don’t care what a woman’s profile says. They see a pretty face, ignore what she’s looking for, and message her anyway. I don’t think I’d want to be with anyone that was looking to take whatever they could get anyway.
You seem like the type of girl that knows what she wants, and I like that. We could go back and forth day after day after day, but like you, I also know what I want and like to believe that I am good judge of character, so I’d rather just meet up with you sometime within the next two weeks. But before I do that, I wanna give you a call or two just to get a little more comfortable and familiar with who you are. Are you cool with that?
*She sends me an online gift. I send her nothing in return.*
Her: too many guys on here use those dumb lines. I had more on my profile, and they still ask me if i’m in college even though that information is my main headline. Well… I’m (name removed). I’m (age removed) and I know what I want in my life. I’m a (removed) major in college.
My number is xxx-xxx-xxxx. Call me sometime so we can chat. U seem so real. I like that about you!
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