Men Should Avoid Packed Bars
As a player, once you go out enough for a few years, you learn a lot. There are things that rookies don’t see, that an experienced vet knows about. Let’s talk about something that has to do with more than meets the eye: Location. We already know that unless you’re the guy at the tip-top of that social hierarchy, and it is very noticeable by mature women, then you should avoid “sausagefests” by any means possible. That’s pretty much common knowledge.
However, a mistake that rookie players will make, is that if a bar or party is completely packed, with a nice ratio of men to mature women, then his chances of pulling are much better than what they normally would be. Couldn’t be further from the truth. Why so? Anytime you go to a packed bar or party, there are going to be a ton of distractions. What this does is make it nearly impossible to have a decent conversation with any of the mature women that you may come across. That, and when you go to packed bars and parties, mature women are much more likely to have a large group of friends with them, thus making any type of one night stand nearly impossible, as mature women are much more aware of how they are perceived by friends.
Not only that, but when you go to packed bars or parties, men are much more confident. They’re more willing to take risks and approach mature women because they assume that everyone is caught up in the chaos and that no one is paying any attention. And that just might be the case. Either way, it inflates the egos of mature women because they are getting approached every two seconds. From experience I can tell you that the worst time for a man to go out trying to pick-up mature women is on holidays where people in bars and large parties are crammed shoulder to shoulder, where men feel like they can quickly disappear into the crowd should they get rejected.
But where are the best places for a player to pick up mature women? More chill, laid back parties and bars where there aren’t a lot of people. Not necessarily a lounge, but a bar or party that for whatever reason, isn’t packed. This works to your advantage for multiple reasons. Reason number one being that there aren’t a lot of distractions. When there aren’t many distractions, mature women are much more likely to listen to what you have to say and are more likely to feel the vibe that you have going on.
Secondly, mature women aren’t going to be as picky. Where there are a ton of people, mature women tend to get analysis paralysis. In other words, they get caught up in looking at their various options, and are more willing to hold out for the perfect guy, even prematurely dismissing you to give him the opportunity to approach her should he want to do so in the future.
And lastly, true confidence comes into play. When the bar or party isn’t so crowded, you’ll notice that even the best looking men are terrified of approaching mature women in open space, where everyone can see and is probably paying attention to them. Without the distractions and the ability to quickly disappear into the crowd, most men aren’t so courageous when it comes to approaching mature women. This deflates the egos of mature women dramatically, and most mature women end up dying for a man to come talk to them. If you have true confidence, then this works to your advantage.
Most of my one night stands happened at these smaller events. When it comes to picking up mature women, more sets doesn’t mean better chances of pulling a woman. Let me repeat that: more chances does not equal better chances. So the next time you and your buddies are thinking about hitting up a bar or party because it’s going to be packed, remember this post and the reasons why going to such places are one of the worst things you can do if you actually plan on pulling a woman.
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