Using Pull To Your Advantage
I’ve been busy playing Final Fantasy II and occasionally browsing the seduction blogs and forums, and I’m still seeing a lot of men debating all of the trouble they’re having with the various aspects of the game. And in my mind, I’m thinking ‘I can’t believe that these guys still haven’t figured out the easy route yet’. Even after many of you have been reading my blog for years, you still don’t get it, and that astonishes me.
I think I need to reiterate the meat and potatoes of my game: Pull. Have I cold approached for experimental reasons? Yes. But do I make it (cold approaching) the core of my game? No. If you’ve been paying attention, then you’d know that I focus on drawing women to me and using my strengths to my advantage. I believe that every guy has strengths; he just doesn’t use them to his advantage.
I’ll give you a few examples. I know that I am a very funny guy, however, it is completely spontaneous. So do I go up to a bunch of random girls, hoping that something funny comes out of my mouth? No. That’s too much work for me. What did I do? I exploited that strength by putting up a really funny online dating profile which draws women to me. Now all I do is just check my inbox whenever a girls sends me a message. I do absolutely nothing, and I get the girls.
The next example was when I lived on campus and had a lot of cash to burn. Did I spend a lot of time going out chasing after women? No. I simply bought a lot of alcohol, word got out that I always had it and never ran out, I threw the occasional crazy parties, and the women came to me. As I stated before, it was pretty normal for me to have women over every weekend. I do absolutely nothing, and I get the girls.
When I use to smoke weed, did I do all of the pick up stuff to get women? Absolutely not. I’d just go to a bar or party and go straight to the smokers. If they smoke cigarettes, they smoke weed, and if they smoke, they fuck. All I’d do is bullshit for 5-10 minutes, and then I’d be leaving with those girls to go smoke a blunt. I do absolutely nothing, and I get the girls.
When I go out to a bar, do I approach random women hoping that one will stick? No. I simply dress as a really fly guy, catch eye contact, initiate the casual chit-chat, and let the women come to me. I do absolutely nothing, and I get the girls. Believe it or not, I don’t even use game in bars anymore. No back turns, no routines, no deep rapport etc.
I could go on and on, but I’ve put up enough for you to understand that it is much easier to play off of your strengths and let the women come to you than it is to chase them around and going through all of these steps just for a piece of ass. When the women come to you, you don’t have to worry about doing this and that. Why? Because you have the power, and when you have the power, women make everything easy for you (as demonstrated in the examples in my guide about one night stands).
The point is, I’ve figured out how to work the system and use it to my advantage by using Pull. What a lot of you guys are doing, is very similar to a person just starting a business; you’re working 14 hours a day, 7 days a week, and busting your ass just to keep your head above water. A smart businessman doesn’t do all of that. All he does is set up something so he can relax and just collect money in his bank account. In other words, he makes his money work for him, he doesn’t work for his money.
Stop focusing on all of that troublesome “what should I do here and there” nonsense. You need to invest and start focusing on how you can draw women to you using Pull, so you don’t have to worry about any of that and make things easy on yourself.
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