Pick-Up Women Using A Familiar Voice Tone
Have you ever noticed that when you pick up women by treating and speaking to them in that familiar buddy or best friend tonality the interaction seems to go much better. There is a reason why in the Pick-Up community the gurus teach you guys to treat girls like your little bratty sister or “one of the boys.” You see when you talk to a girl like you speak to one of your best guy friends she feels like you are being more genuine with her and not falling into her beauty trap that most guys buy into. You don’t give her the high status that every other chump has been giving her all her life when they try to do their pick-up routine. So by not trying to pick her up by changing your voice and acting fake, she will start to connect with you more and she realizes that it’s totally normal for you to have beautiful friends that are women in your life, since you treat them all the same as the guys in your life.
Alex from Loveawake.com says:
Picture this scene:
You’re walking down the sidewalk. You get to an intersection crowded with people. You weren’t even supposed to see your best friend today and coincidentally you see him walk by. He doesn’t see you. You go up to him and tap him on the shoulder and say “Hey!”
What tone of voice are you using?
Compare that to this scene:
You’re walking down the sidewalk. You see a girl standing next to a building. You decide to approach her. You walk up to her and say “Hey.”
What tone of voice are you using in this situation?
It should be the same one.
It’s called familiar voice tone. Most people use a different voice tone when they talk to a stranger than when they talk to a friend.
It tends to be lower, less excited, cautious. Subdued. The tone says “I don’t trust you yet.” And it triggers her defenses so that she is thinking in her head that she doesn’t trust you either.
Try this exercise. Go out and ask five different people for directions today. You can ask for directions to anything like the library, Barnes & Noble or Starbucks.
But when you go up to them and say “Hi” or “Hey,” I want you to pretend, as much as possible, that this person is your best friend and you just happened to run into them. Then just ask them for directions as you normally would.
Notice how they treat you differently. With your voice tone, you said “I am your best friend!”
Ideally, they will look at you to see if they know you from somewhere.
It is very hard to do this in the beginning you will constantly catch yourself changing your voice when your talking to a new hot chick. You must constantly try to correct yourself and start talking to women with a friendly familiar voice for now on. By adding this technique when you go out to pick up women or just going through your daily routines throughout the day. I promise you will notice a huge difference.
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